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Here’s the story: The two pieces of slate, and the large rounded glacial pebbles set in crushed limestone around it, are the salvaged pieces of the altar at Holy Innocents Hoffman Estates, my former Episcopal mission parish. When we closed the church at the end of December, 2006, there were a few people who mourned the loss as if a family member died. Many of them left after trying to remain with the rest of us; they just couldn’t continue in the new place.

One of the things that was discussed in the run-up to the closure and merger with St Nicholas was a crazy-ass idea: the St Nick’s people offered to help us dismantle the altar and move it to Elk Grove, where it would become an outdoor altar for summer use. This was receive politely by some and enthusiastically by others, but privately a lot of us thought “nice sentiment, but not possible.”

Well, butter mai butt and call me a biskit, they got ‘er done last week, a little more than a year and a half later. A few months back, the old altar was carefully demolished at the old building, as the new owners had agreed to letting us take it down. They’re not a liturgical church and did not need it (and it was in the sightlines between the congregation and the ministers).  A crew of volunteers went over and took the altar apart. Most of the men who originally put it up have died, but a few older ladies remembered the story on how it came to be. The men had gone up to Kettle Moraine State Park in Wisconsin to liberate some glacial rubble from a quarry area, and the slate for the altar top was duly ordered with a nice set of Maltese crosses at the corners and in the center. A relic of the Blessed James De Koven was set in the top – this explains uch about our Anglo-Catholic tradition at Holy Innocents. But when the then bishop of Chicago was to come for a visit in the early Sixties, he told the mission that the top of the altar was much too low – it needed to be raised a matter of inches to be “correct.” Well, so they went and bought another piece of slate, which was quickly marked with crosses (they appear to be done with a stonecutting saw, very utilitarian). The family of Florence Keller donated the cost of this second piece of slate, and it was installed on top of the first one. Here’s how it looked after the closing liturgy, when we cleared out the worship space immediately after church on the Feast of the Holy Innocents. And here’s how it looked ‘undressed for Advent‘ the year we started the “grocery bags for the hungry” pantry ministry.

When the altar was dismantled, it was found that the stones were mortared in place around a simple wood-and-chickenwire frame, which came apart pretty easily. The two pieces of slate were separated for the first time in forty years, having been held together with little more than gravity and caulk.

The whole affair was trucked over by the volunteers to St Nick’s, where the pieces spent the winter on wood pallets under canvas. Then a few months ago, a committee started working on what to do with it all.

Originally, the old altar was to be restored as it had originally been. The workmen decided that the old top would form the supports for the new altar, and they cut it in half and angled the halves in order to give as much support as possible to the newer top – the plan was to rebuild the “cage” around them and put the rubble boulders back, covering the old top back forever.  But then after church a few weeks ago, we were all “volunteered” to move the boulders to around the edge of the newly laid concrete slab, and this was the first time for us to see the slate altar “in situ.”

We admired the Maltese cross carvings (one of them had to be sliced in half). Manny, one of our priests, is Maltese, and he took a lot of ribbing. Several of us started talking as we lugged boulders… “what if we did something else with the boulders instead of replicating the old altar?”

We decided, just a random group of sweating folks, that we liked the modernity of the exposed “old” and “new” slate and the way the legs were angled, with the Maltese crosses toward the street, appealed to us. We didn’t mind the machine marks on the back, either. They just showed that it was an altar that had been used – it was a working altar for decades, and a little wear and tear is inevitable. So after some discussion, and moving the boulders again, the Bishop’s Committee ratified the informal “what-iffery” of the boulder-haulerrs, and came up with a nice solution (approved by the ultimate authority, the “stone guy” that Tim had found who was willing to do the work at cost, with free labor).  So now it remains only to be used. We’d better do this quick! Summer is almost over. But we think that seating won’t be a problem, as everyone has at least one camp chair or folding tailgater chair at home. I just hope it doesn’t happen while I’m away on vacation, although it probably will.

It’s funny how things work themselves out. Father Steve, our vicar, had been so anxious to preserve the past, but the people who were interested in doing something new were the former Holy Innocents people – in fact, pretty much ALL of the former HI people that have become integrated with the rest of St Nicks. He was so worried about causing hurt, but we were all very quick to come to the same conclusion – we’re happy to see the old made new, for the greater good of our own church community. Now we have to figure out how to rededicate the altar, and ourselves.

A harvest blessing, perhaps?

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Originally uploaded: 31 Jul ’08, 7.00pm CDT PST

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Wii bowling at the retirement home

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Today being the third Saturday of the month, some of us from the “nurturing” team at Holy Moly/St Nicholas were at Asbury Park for the ecumenical service we do. On my way in, I spotted this on the schedule board for the day: there we are at 10:30, in direct competition with the Wii Bowling.

And let me say, the Wii virtual bowlers were kicking ass and having a great time, from the sound of it.

We had a pretty good time too – Tim from choir showed up, so we “made a choir” and stood together. Finished with “Amazing Grace,” which I folked up a little when I heard Mary play a “blue note” on the digital organ in the intro. Tim sang the tenor part and we made a pretty good duet of it. One very dignified black lady almost whooped and hollered when Father Paul announced the hymn, it’s apparently a favorite of hers. So as we helped her out afterwards, she told us she loved it and looked forward to our monthly services so much. Really, it’s just a little thing, but the residents seem to appreciate our efforts so much – Mary was there on the electric piano, and this time we noticed that the heavy instrument had been moved and positioned so it had a great view of the front of the chapel. That was thoughtful, whoever did that. We’ve tried to move it, and it’s incredibly heavy.

We saw Richard, the guy who’s writing the kids’ story about a mousemonaut, and also the usual assortment of vintage ladies who seem to get a big kick out of our modest efforts.

I held the little silver doodad that holds the oil for anointing ( think it’s called chrism?) and was really moved by the first two, who held each other up in the most loving way as they approached. I couldn’t help but wonder if our attendance was down because of the nice spring weather we’re finally having, and whether the folks that were there got many visitors. A lot of the prayers and collects that Fr. Paul uses in putting together the short liturgy mention the lonely and the ill, along with the poor and the oppressed.

It’s always humbling to assist, and we make a point of going to where people are sitting in the chapel if they can’t come forward. Most of the residents get around pretty well, but a few people like to settle in one place. Before we started one of our regulars told me she’d like us to serve her at her chair; I chuckled and said “Don’t worry, we deliver.” But then she was able to get up and come forward, rather than wait. Really touching.

I always get charged up at these deals, and today was no exception. Next month, we have to do something different as Fr. Paul can’t be there.
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Originally uploaded: 19 Apr ’08, 5.23pm CDT PST

The Gifts of a Unicorn, and Life

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Choirmistress Mary does a lot for us, and frequently pays out of pocket for new music and things she thinks we need in order to look and sound like a seasoned choir, and not a ragtag group that formed a little over a year ago. So one of our members found a Christmas ornament that mirrored a unicorn print that Mary has in her home and we presented it to her last night.

We also had a wonderful surprise from another choir member who’s been battling brain cancer; she got amazing news from her oncologist. Let’s not say “miracle” yet, but it’s thrillingly good news. I knew something was up when I saw her hop out of her husband’s truck and walk with a bounce in her step (and no cane) to the door. She’s kicking cancer’s ass

It was a really, really good practice last night. We’ll be working on some challenging music over the summer, but also we’ll do a couple of things during the “slow” season of single services and twice-monthly practices instead of weekly practices. We’re working on a Hebrew piece called “Oseh Shalom” that we’ll segue into “Let There Be Peace On Earth” for a service sometime in July with a peace and justice theme.

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Originally uploaded: 17 Apr ’08, 7.47am CDT PST

Fat Liturgical Dancer: Small Churches Suck

I can’t wait to repost this over at the Holy Moly blog… perhaps later in the liturgical season of Soccerates, when attendance drops and we combine two services into one over the summer.

I already sent a link to Father Steve, who really loves the upholstered chairs we have at St Nick’s and performs a kind of meditative dance when he lines them up in new and interesting patterns before services.  He may get a kick out of this:

Fat Liturgical Dancer

Now that every church is certain that the only path to success is by having a Mega Church, a number of companies have sprung up to meet this new demand. One such company is SCS (Small Churches Suck) who provide specialist furniture specific to Mega Church needs. SCS CEO, Bob Chuckpants states, We at SCS understand that small churches suck and do all we can to provide the successful church with all the furniture they need to be cool and have lots of people attend and stuff.

This is especially funny as I live in a town famous for its influential Mega Church, and on our way back from our pre-Easter Eggses breakfast, we were following a van from said church out on a mysterious mission of its own. They were probably making a Costco run to pick up a huge amount of TP, coffee accessories, and bakery items.

Chicago’s new Episcopal bishop, national leader speak up for gay clergy — chicagotribune.com

Yes! This is what we hoped to see:

Chicago’s new Episcopal bishop, national leader speak up for gay clergy — chicagotribune.com

Chicago’s new Episcopal bishop and the church’s national leader sent a clear message Sunday about where they stand on gay clergy, a smoldering issue that threatens to tear apart the denomination.Wrapping up a five-day tour in honor of Jeffrey Lee, the new Chicago bishop, Katharine Jefferts Schori declared that the American church will not stand alone in its support of gay clergy during an international meeting in July in Lambeth, England.

“Many more [bishops] than you might expect are sympathetic,” Jefferts Schori, the presiding Episcopal bishop, told parishioners at St. Nicholas Church in Elk Grove Village. “They are not, however, the loudest voices.”

Later in Chicago, Lee was seated at St. James Cathedral and reminded audience members of their call to ministry by virtue of their baptism, not their liberal or conservative interpretations of Scripture.

“That’s one of the tragedies afflicting the church right now,” he said. “So many of us seem to think that salvation depends on our theological correctness.”

I couldn’t go to the seating, but I was at the consecration. I like Bishop Lee, though; he stepped into his new role with aplomb once he was consecrated.

But Jefferts Schori’s comment regarding bishops’ support reassured Rev. Stephen Martz, the vicar of St. Nicholas, where gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender families are welcome to worship.

“It seemed to be an authentic remark,” Martz said. “I hope it’s true.”

It also reassured Rev. Alex Seabrook, 82, who was ordained in 1954 and attended the service at St. Nicholas to watch the presiding bishop baptize twins.

“I’ve seen the church of the past,” he said. “The whole service today was the church of the future.”

That’s us. The twin babies are the children of a woman priest, and they were held by two other woman priests.

I have pictures – lots of pictures! that David took, and I took a few, too. More later.

UPDATE II crossposted from the church blog.

Recessional Joy

This was how we all felt as Sunday’s service ended: full of joy, and not a little relief that we had managed to pull off such an important event as the visit of the Presiding Bishop to a small, suburban parish such as St Nick’s.

This was how the crucifers and torchbearers looked going in:

Tense Processional

As you can see, a little tense. But soon we all relaxed and enjoyed the service, which included plenty of music, the baptism of two wee little babies, and a great sermon by Bishop Katharine that took us all with her to on a recent trip to North Korea by way of illustrating the Gospel and other readings.

The images from her description of her trip with other Anglican dignitaries to deliver some charity gifts will remain with us for a long time; she noted how the tourist road was well paved, but the roads the North Korean people traveled were dirt. It was cold, cold, cold, and she hiked up a mountain called “Diamond” in a tourist area of the peninsula to see a famous old temple.

St Nicholas Welcomes Bishop Katharine

More recently, she was out for a very early morning run just before dawn near Norfolk, VA (as a former, non-elite runner, I can almost relate – barely). She experienced God in the clear mountain air as sharp and cold as diamonds in North Korea, and in the lonely darkness before dawn in the smaller mountains of Virginia, with the East striped with a band of red that faded after only a few moments. She was preaching about mountains to people that live in the flatlands, but as a former mountain girl myself, I believe she was talking about their power to transfigure us and the way we see the world. And then how we’re charged with getting out into the world and climbing a few mountains ourselves, and overcoming obstacles.

St Nicholas Welcomes Bishop Katharine

Presentation of flowers and a banner they made from the children of St Nick’s

St Nicholas Welcomes Bishop Katharine

Presentation of an empty case! It will contain a DVD of a roundtable discussion from our LGTB Spirituality group. It was Bishop Katharine’s response to this presentation which was quoted in the Chicago Tribune.

Katharine and St Nicholas

Katie Black and her mother Audrey Cannon present Bishop Katharine with a St Nicholas icon, signed by all of us.

Katharine and St Nicholas

Tim Black and Marty O’Rourke get ready to present Bishop Katharine with a hard hat from the Building and Grounds Committee. It was supposed to be symbolic of our hoped-for expansion project, but they also think she could find other uses for it.

Katharine and St Nicholas

And she wore it. I think Tim just saluted – former Navy man that he is.

St Nicholas Welcomes Bishop Katharine

The younger parishioners take their responsibilities seriously when they bring the gifts to the altar.

St Nicholas Welcomes Bishop Katharine

Bringing just one can of beans helps a hungry family, even if it’s too big to hold.

St Nicholas Welcomes Bishop Katharine


The gifts of food for our pantry.

Let Them Eat Cake

Choirmistress Mary Gomez Fletcher threatens the choir with death if we blow the entry directs the choir.

Let Them Eat Cake

Cowed into submission, the choir performs “All Good Gifts” by Natalie Sleeth.
I’m the big red one in the middle of the second row. At least my part is straight.

St Nicholas Welcomes Bishop Katharine

The gifts of God, for the people of God.

There were many gifts and blessings; food for the pantry, two prayer blankets, icons, several donations in Katharine’s name to various MDG charities, a DVD from our LGTB Spirituality group, a St Nicholas ornament and icon for Katharine, and the greatest gift and blessing of all: sharing the Eucharist with her and with each other.

There were a LOT of people there from neighboring Episcopal churches and we saw many old friends and familiar faces. And afterwards, there was time to greet Katherine, visit with her husband Richard, and eat lots of cake.

Let Them Eat Cake

Bishop Katharine and her husband Richard, no doubt longing for cake (and coffee), wait to greet parishioners and visitors. Father Steve, in the middle on the right, may be trying to fit one more thing into the tight schedule.

Katharine and St Nicholas

Detail of the back of Katharine’s chausuble – I took this photo, having been released from choir jail duties.

Katharine and St Nicholas

The Rev. Alex Seabrook of St John the Evangelist, Lockport IL, has a heart-to-heart with Katharine. He was also quoted in the Chicago Tribune: “I’ve seen the church of the past,” he said. “The whole service today was the church of the future.” Mary looks on.
(I took this one, too)

Let Them Eat Cake

Wait… is this another press release? Father Steve had me send out dozens, in 5 different waves touching on different themes. Is this his way of alerting bakery workers to ++Katherine’s visit?

All photos are by David Gibbs except as noted.

Several blogs and news sites referenced this event or helped us get the word out, including The Lead, the Mad Priest’s blog, BeliefNet, and Episcope. See also our group page on Facebook!

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Half Court Press: The Trib Mentions Episcopalians!

I must have sent 3 press releases to Manya Brachear, the Trib religion editor. Maybe 4.  I had hoped for a sidebar in the Trib on Holy Moly’s big visitation, but no joy in this article. She does an okay job of explaining the complicated background detail.

 I’m planning to go to the shindig tomorrow at House of Hope, but we got a lot of snow last night and frankly I’d rather go x-c skiing rather than spending a lot of time cooped up in someone else’s car trying to get to the South Side. We’re not scheduled to leave from St Nicholas until 11am, which will probably be moved up.  We’ll see. I’d like to go, but it depends on other factors.

I don’t know who the specific complaining conservatives are that are mentioned in the lower part of the article. I do know some people that left Holy Innocents a couple of years ago who were fed up with “the gay clergy thing,” and it grieves me that they could no longer feel comfortable in the church they loved for so long. But it also was a relief that such negative, unforgiving people are no longer holding the rest of us at Holy Moly back. We went on, and got over our own grief at closing the building, but have found joy in joining with and becoming St Nick’s. We’re going to show a lot of joy on Sunday when Bishop Katharine comes to us; I can tell from some other news articles I’ve seen that she’s in town and not stuck in Yoo Nork waiting for the weather to clear. It’s nice to see that she’s getting on with business as usual – working with our friends da Loot’rans on ecumenical stuff, and issuing joint statements on peace,  and social justice matters. That’s what we’re all about.

Episcopalians get bishop — chicagotribune.com

Rev. Jeffrey Lee felt the pull of the pulpit even before he was an Episcopalian. His Lutheran pastor urged him from an early age to consider a clerical career.

Lee moved a little closer when he entered a darkened Episcopal sanctuary as a teenager, smelled the incense and heard the poetry of the prayers and knew he belonged in the Episcopal Church.

U.S. Episcopal Bishop To Visit EG Church

At last! One of the press releases pays off, very modestly. I sent PR #3 earlier to all my news contacts, and it’s more of a peppy upbeat thing than this one, which is cut and pasted from the original PR with quotes inserted by the diocesan communications guy – I had asked him to pass it along to Episcopal Life Online.

That’s okay, I’ve got a contact now… we’ll see how that pans out.

U.S. Episcopal Bishop To Visit EG Church

By TOM ROBB

Journal Reporter

The presiding bishop of the United States Episcopal Church, the Most Rev. Katharine Jefferts Schori, will preach and celebrate mass at St. Nicholas Episcopal Church in Elk Grove Village on Sunday, Feb. 3.

“Bishop Katharine’s visit is the most exciting event in our history,” said St. Nicholas Pastor Fr. Stephen Martz. “Having the presiding bishop come here is a wonderful affirmation of our determination to become a new kind of church.”

Spokesman for the Chicago Diocese, David Skidmore, said St. Nicholas was chosen because it is a growing church with innovative programs.

Skidmore said St. Nicholas’ GLBT (gay lesbian, bisexual and transgendered) program as being of particular interest to the bishop.

Recently, the Episcopal Church consecrated its first openly gay bishop in New Hampshire.

Skidmore also said geography played a part in the decision. On her last visit to Chicago the bishop visited a church on Chicago’s north side.

Fr. Martz said the church is growing in both size and community outreach. St. Nicholas merged with the smaller congregation of Holy Innocence Church on Jan. 1, 2007, and increased its size 20% beyond the growth from the merger.

In the last year, St. Nicholas expanded its food pantry from one day per month to two and expanded its client base from five or eight people to 25. It has also expanded its outreach focus from hunger and children to senior citizens and the GLBT community.

Schori is visiting Chicago to consecrate Jeffrey Lee as the new bishop of Chicago.

Urk! It’s “Holy INNOCENTS Church.” And I think that Bishop ++Katharine prefers “Jefferts Schori.” Still, not bad for a first effort.

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Man The Lifeboats

Episcopal Life Online – NEWS

Bishop-Pope Duncan emerges as the leader of a very mixed bag of Anglican nut fudge. One of the new allied leaders apparently didn’t get the memo about always speaking as if from a position of strength; he speaks of being “in a lifeboat” situation and hoping to find a broad enough church to overcome their many and various differences of opinions. Um.

The Kwik-E-Mart Model To Grow The Church

AKMA’s Random Thoughts

Now, let’s ask the embarrassing question. which is your church more like: the office funny guy repeating something that someone once thought was amusing, or the brilliantly subtle, detailed creation of a physical-world Kwik-E-Mart?

Much of the time, my rants about attention to detail and communicating carefully and responsibly and deliberately, are drowned out by a culture of casualness, spontaneity, free-wheelin’ yada yada yada. Hey, spontaneity and relaxation and freedom are good things, I approve of them. But attention to detail — by people who know what they’re doing — makes a difference, and viewers, visitors, congregants can tell (even if they can’t articulate the difference it makes). I didn’t see Diana Butler Bass when she passed through town (she was here only in father-daughter time), but it sounded as though she was saying similar things: that congregations grow not because you belong to the Single Correct Side of a theo-ideological schism, but because you realize that the work of living as a congregation, as a Body, requires care and attention to detail. People can tell the difference.

Attention to detail. This is something I struggle with every day, and something that’s just as likely to make me run and hide under the covers. And yet it’s something I have to do, and now I’ve taken on a new role as “chairperson” of one of the four new “ministry teams” (translation: small committee with a limited mission) at Holy Moly, it’s something I’ll have to deal with.

I’m kind of worried we’ll fall into the “office funny guy” trap if we’re not careful – we need be mindful about how we go about things.

Not only that, but what we’re doing on the Inviting Committee is learning to pay special attention to how we tell our story to people in the hopes of attracting them to be part of our community. And what we do leads directly to the Welcoming Committee, whose mission is to make sure people feel like coming to us was a good idea and to make it seem like a good idea to come back and all that kind of “Christian Formation” stuff. And that leads to the Nurturing Committee, which I’m also on, and we’re supposed to be taking care of people’s needs and offering various kinds of pastoral care. And finally if people feel really good about becoming part of the community, the Generosity Committee is there to make sure that people give generously of themselves and so forth.

And if we don’t pay attention to detail, this process will get derailed, potential new people will be unhappy or dissatisfied with their experience if they visit us, and we don’t grow. Thanks, AKMA, this actually helps! I’m going to get two blog posts out of this: one here, and one at the Holy Moly site. That is, the Blog of the Church Soon To Be Formerly Known As St Nicholas With The Holy Innocents. We’re planning a discernment period for figuring out which of the 3 choices we’ve identified is the best one. We have to pay careful attention to this and not screw it up.

I totally get how Kwik-E-Mart, that is, 7-11 has paid a lot of attention to detail in their tie-in promotion with The Simpsons movie, as documented in a colorful Flickr set showing the hilarious (and subtle) posters and inside jokes that 7-11 has come up with to make at least one of their stores a spot-on real-life analogue for the Kwik-E-Mart we know and love. They’re showing the love to the trufen, and also to the nonfen who know enough about The Simpsons to get most of the inside jokes in 7-11’s promotion. But not all – no joke is too obscure for 7-11 to have used for one of their posters – in some cases, the reference is to just one episode, that only trufen would recognize (and be able to cite by title, original broadcast date, and guest cast).

What I do not yet get is how to show this love to potential churchfen, so that inviting, welcoming, nurturing, and giving back are one seamless, fulfilling, consistent process. But I’ll be thinking about it this week.

And remember: A Twizzler is not a Sprinkle! A Mounds is not a Sprinkle! A Jolly Rancher is not a Sprinkle!

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