City Weekly Headline Re-Written To Remove Gender Term, URL Changed Later

Originally, the headline in Google Reader was: “News Blog: Tranny in lock-up complains of abuse.” It still shows that way in Reader and on Topix.net. Now it reads “Transsexual in Salt Lake County jail complains of abuse.” Apparently it was re-written at least twice to correct the headline and typos, but there’s still a few left – it’s a news blog, after all, not a front-page story.

There’s another story at City Weekly that extensively quotes a very proud performer named Princess Kennedy, who apparently went to my high school. She matter-of-factly self-refers as “tranny.” Maybe in the Utah GLBT community, the word has been taken back with pride, but I thought outsiders and the press using the word was still considered pejorative or threatening. It creeps me out to see it, but maybe reading Autumn Sandeen’s work at Pam’s House Blend has sensitized me too much? I’ll have to ask my Utah family and friends who know the local community better what the correct term is supposed to be, it just looks bad and wrong.

In any case, the original URL:
http://www.cityweekly.net/utah/blog-4808-tranny-in-lock-up-complains-of-abuse.html

has been replaced by a slightly more professionally edited one:
http://www.cityweekly.net/utah/blog-4808-transsexual-in-salt-lake-county-jail-complains-of-abuse.html

The story still messes up on the gender pronouns according to my understanding of how Pam’s House Blend’s contributors would write it up, but Davila-Escobedo (no first name given other than Monica) was interviewed in Spanish and apparently used the male pronouns.

A male-to-female transgender Hispanic claims he has been victimized by guards during his current incarceration in the Salt Lake County jail.

A recent diary at PHB starts out “Transgender woman arrested for being assaulted by cop.” Female identity and pronouns are used throughout. So this would appear to still need a re-write.

Davila-Escobedo, 32, has female breasts and male genitals. A discussion of who he is can be confusing. “I’m a man I know, but I have woman’s parts,” he says in Spanish. He has been incarcerated in the male wing of the jail since he was picked up last month on an outstanding warrant relating to a guilty plea for joyriding.

I met Davila-Escobedo while researching a cover story earlier this year called Kings of Queens. I knew him then as Monica. I interviewed him several times and he shed some light on the tough, demanding and often dangerous life of Hispanic transgender male-to-females who worked endless hours in salons to earn money for surgerical procedures.

“I want to be with men, it would be punishment to be with women,” he says, when asked if he wouldn’t prefer to be incarcerated with women. He uses a pencil for eyeliner, “because that’s who I am, I can’t be a man.”

Davila-Escobedo is undocumented and has already been deported once. He was in minimum security, while he waited for a defense attorney who failed three times to show up for his court dates. Davila-Escobedo says he has other transgender friends in jail, but they do not have breasts. His female body parts became an issue on Dec. 7, he alleges, when three or more guards sexually harassed him.

Naturally, aside from the gender issues, the commenters at City Weekly are totally focused on the ILLEGAL!! MEXICAN!! HERE ILLEGALLY! aspect and are revealed as hyper-patriotic Neanderthal-Americans, not an unusual political stance in Utah.

The likeliest outcome: Davila-Escobedo will be badly beaten in jail before being deported to almost certain prostitution or death in Mexico, but few in Utah will care very much because, ILLEGAL and TEH GAY. “Surgerical” procedures or not, it’s tough being gay AND Hispanic in Utah.

via Salt Lake City Blogs:News Blog-Transsexual in Salt Lake County jail complains of abuse

Resolutions Not Meant To Be Broken If I Can Help It And Not Force-Fed Chocolate

Isn’t this a boring blog? Isn’t it? My life’s not really this boring, it’s just that I rarely take the time to write a full-bore flat-spin blog post anymore. I fall back on my old standbys, Google Reader (shared news) and my various Twitter accounts. I can’t catch up on blogging during the work week for going on 3 years, so every now and then I do a big “here’s what’s been going on” catchall.

Yeah, boring. And I haven’t even really done a big London mixed-grill slap-up bang-up, either. The pictures are still on my hard drives – the laptop, the desktop, AND the iPad – but I hope to work through the main archive, cull the weaklings, and upload the lot to Flickr and Facebook.

Come to think of it, I don’t think I even did a write-up of the last trip to Hawaii. I suck at blogging, so I resolve to do better.

I resolve to write more blog posts – ideally, every other day if possible. I used to update multiple times a day but most of that was “ZOMG look at this dumb political hack putting his big fat cloven hoof in his pie-hole” stuff.

No, I want to blog more about what goes on, day-to-day, in a house with 2 somewhat disorganized geeks, more computers than can conveniently be counted while wearing shoes, and a cat who stalks dust bunnies and re-delivers them up in covert locations.

Also, I resolve to write something so funny, rant-astic, or well-written that it blows “How Old Is Your Whirlpool Washer” off my ALL-TIME MOST READ, MOST COMMENTED POST list (I don’t mind that the post about installing the graphics card is second, I’m just glad people find it useful).

Meanwhile, Allie Brosh gets all kind of love from famous Internet geeks like BoingBoing and TV’s WilWheaton, and any day now I expect that she’ll get a book deal, rather than self-publish like Betsy did. And while I’m at it, gosh darn it, I’m going to update my blogroll. Okay, done.

I also resolve to find more awesome for my blogroll.  However, this could take some time, as I tend to burn about 10-15 minutes per link, because I keep finding more and more awesome stuff.

Other resolutions: I will sign up for the health club at work after the new year. The monthly rate is higher – no longer subsidized by the office – but dammit, I’ve regained some weight and I liked feeling trimmer and slimmer. I know I can do it, and I know I can say “NO DAMN YOU CHOCOLATE BROWNIES, YOU MAY NOT GET IN MY BELLEH” when necessary at work. It’s tough getting through the candy holidays, though. I did it last year, didn’t avoid it much this year. Will have to be strong for Valentine’s Day and Easter, and then we’re good until Halloween.

Another resolution: I will try to get to bed earlier.

And some more:

  • I will try to read more books this year.
  • I will not settle for another Top Gear or Mythbusters rerun, I will seek out new worlds, new civilizations.
  • I will try to update the church website more frequently and promote events via Twitter and the blog.
  • I will try not to grumble, bitch and moan about those things that frequently make me G, B, and M.
  • I resolve to make eye contact and smile at people more often. I don’t do this, and it seems to matter. Duh.
  • I will try to behave as if I have a normal-sized amygdala.
  • I will try not to bore people with my doings at church, with the cat, or in Second Life.

And oh, crap: now I need to do a whole raft of boring, Second Life-specific resolutions like everyone else. Huzzah!

Happy New Year, everyone! Let’s be not boring out there!

Leisure and Hubbub and hello, 11th year of the 21st Century!

I ended up getting the day off as it’s pretty slow at work, but instead of a quiet day at home with my husband David and Mr. Rileycat, working on any one of dozens of vaguely important projects, I’m bouncing from place to place in the house.

The cleaning service showed up today after all (David couldn’t remember if he’d cancelled them for this week) and so they’re bustling around and I’m doing my best to either keep ahead of them (last minute cleanup job on the stovetop, catbox, dishwasher) or stay out of the way.

Seems to be working okay, for now.

I have a new doctor, I think.  I just spent the better part of 10 days just trying to get a freaking STANDING PRESCRIPTION filled. It’s partly my fault – I missed an appointment with my previous doctor (oops, sorry) and his policy is to mark his prescriptions “no refill.”

He would only write 1 prescription for the maximum 90 days the insurance formulary allows, and he won’t post-date scrips so you can get a year’s worth of routine scrips all in one visit. He insisted that he needed to see me monthly – which he most certainly did not, as my blood pressure was controlled well and the other things (allergies, occasional sinus infections) are also pretty “business as usual” for me when the weather changes. I was lucky if I could get in quarterly, given how difficult it is to get a Saturday appointment and not take unpaid time or sick time (I have plenty of sick time, though).

Forget being ACTUALLY sick, though; he has 2 offices, won’t prescribe over the phone, and won’t refill if you aren’t calling the office your (paper) chart resides at.  To get a refill on an off day, I’d have to go into the even more inconveniently located office.

Grr. Been down this road before. An old friend (who is recuperating from a nasty bug) responded to my recent Facebook plea for a recommendation for a doctor located in the 21st century, and I have a week to go until I meet my new medica (note – she is female, YAY! (yay)! ).

Not only that – she’s in a multi-doc practice, and they use electronic records, and email, and have a web page.  They’re open 6 – SIX!! – days a week, and have evening hours. And I didn’t have to wait long for my initial visit. I do have to fill out the new patient forms that I downloaded off their patient portal… and later after my blood work is done (there’ll probably be blood work to establish a baseline) I will log into the portal to see the results. No more calling (but mostly forgetting) to call the “right” office on the “right” day and waiting to speak to “Doctor” (his staff all just call him “Doctor,” like his last name is “Who,” or something).  No, I just log in and get the information any time I want.

Can you imagine? I love living in the future.

Linkdump: December 28th

Linkdump: December 25th – December 27th

Weekly Tweets 2010-12-26

  • There are various ways to find and cleanup cat upchuck in the dark; barefoot Braille method is not recommended. #awake #
  • RT @HeathrowAirport: there are no arrivals and only a handful of departures at Heathrow today as we work to make the airfield safe." #
  • Guess that means my stranded UK guy won't make it home again today, poor man. #
  • .@ebertchicago ::sings along:: Walla Walla Wash., and Kalamazoo! Nora's freezing on the trolley… #
  • .@ebertchicago ::singing:: "Swaller dollar cauliflower alley ga-ROO!" That was my dad's favorite Christmas carol. Thanks. #pogo #
  • RT @SaveSGR: Can i get 185 retweets! #Save #STargate #Games http://savestargate.org/ #sgu #sga #sg1 Keep the Franchise alive! read our blog #
  • I just used #Shazam to discover Tears Of A Clown by The Beat. http://shz.am/t267164 #
  • Might be overcast, may check online views tonight via iPad, from my cozy bed rather than outside in the cold #eclipse10 http://is.gd/j5m1K #
  • Rant mode: I NEED A NEW DOCTOR. Preferably one located in the 21st Century. #fb #
  • Wow, all the popular kids like @Shoq and @StopBeck get to be #blatantflamingsexualdegenerates according to @FatherGilhooly. #
  • There's irony for you. I googled "pope shame" for today's apologies to abuse victims. Tons of older stories. http://is.gd/j5rmS #
  • Would someone please tell me if Senator Dick Durbin has a Twitter account? #
  • .@redeyechicago A hawt woman with a snakeskin whip and poison lipstick? #waytogoIndy #
  • RT @Beingtweets "People at the center are not going to be the big change makers. You've got to put yourself at the margins @FrancesKissling" #
  • .@93XRT awesome in-studio with Elvis Costello just now. #
  • .@grantimahara You may not be headed to OGG but you're not sitting in a "winter weather advisory" either! http://moby.to/a3gpdm #
  • Finally. Only way to view #lunareclipse on iPad is via free iPhone UStream app. NASA links all required Flash. Curse the Apple-Flash war! #
  • Horrifying morning, thought I lost my purse. @fallingrock found it. Total freakout cancelled. That is all! #
  • Jesus According To St Stephen Colbert: http://gocl.me/hINxpF #
  • Good morning, friends followers, bots, and spammers! #
  • .@dhewlett Nonsense, bundle up and off you go. If in London, the Christmas displays are quite pretty… #
  • RT @BrianJacobSmith "RT @kasarr UR in a close 2nd now. RT 4 Ur fans 🙂 http://www.twiigs.com/poll/Ent…..ts=1" #
  • RT @nprscottsimon "FBI has released file of longtime friend and colleague Dan Schorr. Investigation found him "hard working." Gasp!" #Scoop #
  • .@KeithOlbermann Maybe news covers cons more for same reason crowds watch a fight: Bullies (and winners) boost ratings more than losers. #
  • Wait,we have to worry about anarchists now too? What's next, Roundheads? Jacobites? #
  • RT @Shoq "Wrote a bumper sticker: Get the hell off my ass or I'm blocking you on @twitter." DO WANT #
  • Almost out of here. Expecting disorganized caller with multiple-flight, multiple-traveler, unprofiled bookings in 3… 2… 1… #
  • Wow, dodged a bullet. Ho-ho-ho-homeward! #
  • Okay, that's enough dogoodery for the day. If I could blog it, the title would be "The Atheist Who Saved Christmas." #
  • RT @Jerusalem_Post: And the most popular religion in the US is…: Harvard professor finds Judaism tops the list. http://bit.ly/hvPWvM #
  • RT @StNickEpiscopal Christmas Eve TONIGHT at 430pm (Family) and 9pm (Candlelight) in Elk Grove Village IL http://www.stnickepiscopal.com #
  • Were all the grievances aired? #thedayafterFestivus #
  • Will be listening to WFMT today. Lessons and Carols at 9am will get me in the right headspace. #
  • Listening to Lessons and Carols from King's College. It's supposed to be simple and elegant. We add extra music… A LOT EXTRA. #
  • OMG listening to multi tonal Lo How A Rose E'er Bloometh on WMFT. Who is the composer? it's GORGEOUS. #lessonsandcarols #
  • We sing "Lo How A Rose" too but that shimmering tonality was just ethereally beautiful. #lessonsandcarols #
  • I'm guessing John Rutter has a lot to do with this. #lessonsandcarols #
  • RT @StNickEpiscopal Imagine being the boy soprano singing "Once in Royal David's City" and knowing that MILLIONS hear you #lessonsandcarols #
  • 90 minute run time for Kings College Cambridge #lessonsandcarols so hope tonight @StNickEpiscopal we don't go longer than that! #
  • Anything longer and more challenging than that is gilding the Christmas lily. Also, NO ANNOUNCEMENTS or "peaceing" #lessonsandcarols #
  • At @StNickEpiscopal the announcements and "peace" (walking around chatting and hugging everyone) go on a bit. We're friendly. ☺ #
  • RT @KSmithSF Listening to WFMT-Kings College program. Pilot chatter broke through–I heard "Merry Christmas." Sure it wasn't Santa? #
  • Snowing. Baking, then drop one car at @StNickEpiscopal, then family food and fun, then back to Nick's for 9pm Christmas Eve, then home. #
  • Will be sporty driving home after singing my heart out at @StNickEpiscopal in the snow. But it will be pretty. #MerryChristmas #
  • Merry Christmas Eve from St Nicholas Episcopal in Elk Grove Village, IL! 2 services tonight: 430pm Family and 9pm Candlelight Mass. #
  • RT @StNickEpiscopal "Post:: Christmas Eve 2010 – 430pm and 9pm http://bit.ly/g9QK9b #
  • ORD has all their landing strip blinkies on. Come on, Santy Claus! #
  • Merry Christmas everyone! #fb #
  • Laughing. Good food. More laughing. Improv: Leah velcroed to the ceiling after bungying up to change a light bulb. Good times. #fb #
  • Done, dead tired. Merry Christmas. #fb #
  • RT @twurchofengland: Wishing all the members of the Twurch of England a VERY happy Christmas #
  • Last night at @StNickEpiscopal was glorious! No hand-candles though; still, it was lovely. Father Manny's sermon rocked, all ex tempore. #
  • But run time was nearly 2 hours, the drive home was slightly sporty as predicted. #MerryChristmas #ChristmasEve #

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Twas the Night Before Pogo

Pop loved Pogo. The Christmas strips were particular favorites of his, but I don’t recall this specific one. The Russian jokes tie it to the Cold War/Space Race storyline… Somewhere I’ve got the books that introduce the two-headed dog who barks in Russian and a kind of gibberish that I find hysterically funny (pookapookapooka!).

This one has St Nicholas and his reindeer (Albert the Alligator and his trusty moose), with Pogo along to make with the good cheer (oog).

Walt Kelly's Pogo: A visit from St Nicholas

Walt Kelly was the greatest daily comic strip artist in American history. His Pogo strip was an uncanny mixture of laughter, high spirits and swamp intrigue, mixed with pointed political satire. His thinly-veiled villain based on Sen. Joseph McCarthy was one of several characters with political overtones.

This material is copyrighted by the Estate of Walt Kelly. It has been posted on the web.

Visit the official site at PogoPossum.com.

via Twas the Night Before Pogo – Roger Eberts Journal.